I don't hang out with my male friends alone or too often, simply to avoid the embarrassment of unreciprocated feelings.Confusing that with love, you easily fall into the trap of infatuation and obsession.3, You believe when two best friends fall in love with each other they are naturally compatible. First, friends are not necessarily compatible at the first place; second, we usually show much higher tolerance to our friends than our lovers because we don't have to hang out with our friends so often, develop such strong emotional attachment or make such serious commitment to them; third, to quote Tom Thomas, "being someone's lover is entirely different than being someone's friend or best friend.Sometimes we think we know someone better than we actually do. If that’s the case, you need to be reintroduced as a couple. We live in an age where everything moves so fast that we expect instantaneous gratification or we get bored. We need to have patience to let a relationship grow at its own pace.Family who may have only thought of you as a friend need to know that your status has changed. They are usually in close proximity to each other at social events and gatherings and they seem to enjoy each other’s company. Some friendships will develop into a relationship at a tortoise’s pace.Dealing with a boyfriend who has a female best friend. When you’re dating someone, you don’t want that person to be close to any other female besides you.When your BF has a girl BFF, it can quickly incite jealousy and feelings of inadequacy. I was in this situation once, and to put it bluntly, it sucked.
Being open about your emotions will relieve any worry and also help you to create an emotional bond on a deeper level. However, you might not know this person’s hopes and dreams in terms of getting married, having a family and building a life together with someone.I read a ton of questions from you guys every day, and those questions include a lot of relationship problems.One of the biggest relationship issues you guys have?Speaking about your potential future together will hopefully strengthen your bond.Additionally, it will clear up any misconceptions you have. It’s possible that during your friendship you met each other’s family.